Articles tagged with community

Privacy and Interaction

By ClAdmin
This shouldn’t have to be said, but here we go. Cuff-Link is a BDSM and kink friendly community. As long as the acts folks partake in are good fun and consensual, we accept all kinds. This includes people who … Read More

So, You Said it’s Over…

By ClAdmin
How to handle the breakup when D/s is involved. As in all relationships, we would hope one would conduct themselves in a manner that reflects well on both their character and their ability to use previous partners as a … Read More

Reality vs. Role Play

By ClAdmin
Many of us live our lives half-offline, half-online. The degree to which we form relationships between the two realms is personal choice. Some believe they are entitled to do whatever they wish and behave however they want without repercussion or … Read More

Taking it Offline

By ClAdmin
Relationship progression is an odd enough thing, isn’t it? Those first few awkward dates, the texts, when do we add each other on the Book of Faces, do we introduce them to our family and if so, when is … Read More

On Ownership and Collars

By ClAdmin
Owners and slaves sometimes have difficulties with misconceptions and assumptions from people outside of the relationship. Frequently, these result from preconceived notions about collars and a slave’s place in general. This is not about “room”, “house”, or “play slaves … Read More

Why Protocol is not Necessarily Needed

By ClAdmin
Preface: This post is the fourth in a series of posts regarding protocol. Put together, they are really, really long. If you have the reading attention span of a gnat on methamphetamines, then the TL;DR version is this: Protocol … Read More

To Formalise Protocol or No

By ClAdmin
Protocol Definition Preface: This post is the third in a series of posts regarding protocol. Put together, they are really, really long. If you have the reading attention span of a gnat on methamphetamines, then the TL;DR version is … Read More

Is Protocol Necessary?

By ClAdmin
Preface: This post is the second in a series of posts regarding protocol. Put together, they are really, really long. If you have the reading attention span of a gnat on methamphetamines, then the TL;DR version is this: Protocol … Read More

Nettiquette on Cuff-Link

By ClAdmin
So you have found your way onto the Internet. In particular #cuff-link and the Cuff-Link Community in general. We would like to share some of our experiences with you, both from personal points, and things we have witnessed ourselves. ## Do … Read More

Kink Shaming - What it Is and Is Not

By ClAdmin
Kink shaming is the act of devaluing, disrespecting, mocking or disparaging a person over or because of their kink or fetish. Assuming a person is not also into humiliation or degradation over their other kinks or fetishes, this is discouraged … Read More

Entry is Consent Channels - Acceptable Use

By ClAdmin
For a long time, “Entry is consent” was used in channel topics and entry messages when a person joined. Submissives agreed to any form of use by dominants upon entry. Dominants agreed to be ‘broken’ upon entry. Consenting to hypnosis … Read More

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